2.) You got duped. What happened?
When you have children, surprises abound. It's in the fine print. And I never read the fine print. I've learned that I fall into the same trap that just about everyone falls into; I never think that it could happen to me, but when it came to children I was SO wrong.
Our first child was planned. The Hubby and I decided the time was right so we had a baby. It was shortly after her birth that we lost all semblance of control. Our daughter was about 6 months old when we learned that

SURPRISE!
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We were out of that NICU in 7 days. |

While my babies learned to breath on their own, my OBGYN tried to piece me back together after my previous C-section scar had reopened during my pregnancy. The old incision had ripped to twice its original size and the only thing keeping me from bleeding out was a 7 lb. backside shoved firmly into the tear acting as a stopper to the ever increasing hole. Big babies are a blessing indeed.
My boys. My heart. My life savers.
My torment... my chaos....
My laughter.
My LOVES, times two!

Happy birthday boys.
Peace Out!

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